Read our full Tinder Platinum review.
Who’s it for:
It’s still a lawless land, but the huge LGBTQ+ user base and added pronouns make Tinder a viable option for gay gals. If you’re looking for a place where you’re guaranteed to find a massive pool of potential matches, Tinder is your app. Sure, Tinder sometimes gets a bad rap for creepy users/messages — and rightfully so. But given its sheer number of active users, which includes a lot of queer folks, we couldn’t leave it off the list.
Why we picked this:
There’s a strong chance you know at least one couple that got their start on Tinder. Countless success stories are told on Reddit when someone asks about where to meet other lesbians. You know the drill: Add pictures, set an age range, and fill out a bio. While you’ll have to swipe your way to a match, this is the best app for scoping out the lesbians in your area. And as the most popular dating app, it has a huge user base.
“If you’re looking for a casual hookup with a wide user base, Tinder is usually an easy place to start,” Kiana Reeves, Somatic Sex Educator, Intimacy Coach, and Chief Education Officer at Foria, tells Mashable. “The app allows you to filter potential matches based on gender, location, and age preferences and will certainly give you a broad sense of what the dating scene is like in your area across a wide range of interests and ages.”
Though your feed will likely be packed with way more lesbians than other apps, it’ll see more appearances by men, too. Tinder has a tendency to ignore filters here and there, though men obviously can’t talk to anyone who doesn’t swipe right. Who can message you, though, are the girls you swipe right for who, surprise, aren’t on Tinder to meet women romantically. Some are looking for friends, some are recruiting a third for a threesome with their boyfriend — either way, you’ll have to do some weeding. If you want to level up your Tinder game, the app offers multiple premium subscription options with bonus features like unlimited swipes, Boosts to increase your visibility, and the ability to see who’s already liked you.
Thankfully, Tinder has made some changes within the last few years to improve its safety features, including verified profiles and the “Does This Bother You?” feature, which flags potentially inappropriate messages and asks the receiver if they’d like to report them. You can also block other users for shitty behavior, which is nice.