90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Loren Allen wanted to marry his girlfriend Faith Tudoc’s mother Pastoralita, so he could legally live in the Philippines – where is he living now? Loren from Las Vegas has been quite open about what he is looking for in a partner. Loren had been married once before and had two biological children. He talked about being attracted to trans women from a young age. He called himself “gynosexual” and insisted he wasn’t gay. Loren found ladyboy Faith on a dating app and connected with her right away.
Loren started feeling very deeply for Faith. They never met in person but were texting every day. He liked how Faith was hardworking and had a close-knit family. To Loren, Faith was “perfect” in every way. Loren and Faith had already told each other “I love you” within the first day of chatting. Six months later, Loren spent his entire savings on getting on a plane to Manila. However, Loren had not been faithful to the love of his life in the last six months. He was readily meeting other people and sleeping with them.
Loren Wanted A Polygamous Relationship With Faith
Loren Kept Faith In The Dark
Loren believed in polygamy. He liked having a partner who he loved and could come back to at the end of the day. However, Loren also wanted to experience physical intimacy with other people. He never discussed this with Faith and assumed he could continue doing it in the Philippines. Faith had considered Loren her boyfriend. He was the first man she ever dated in 30 years. She didn’t want to see her boyfriend sleeping with other people. However, Faith didn’t even know this was happening. Loren never made their relationship exclusive and continued sleeping around.
Loren Revealed He Had Gonorrhea To Faith
Faith Broke Up With Loren
One of the shocking ways in which Faith found out she was being cheated on was when Loren had to come clean to her. Loren was homeless and broke back home in the U.S. He said he worked three jobs, including his drag queen assistant job. It’s not known how exactly Loren was spending all his money, but he seemed to have an idea that he would have to work in the Philippines. He was ready to do any kind of job. However, he made the situation difficult for himself by sleeping with a friend who gave him an STD.
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Loren learned he had Gonorrhea after reaching the Philippines. However, he was well aware of his symptoms before he flew. He continued toying with the idea of settling down in the Philippines. He was sure that Faith would understand his diagnosis and agree to get into a polygamous relationship with him. Faith broke up with Loren immediately, because she had spent six months thinking they were exclusive. Faith didn’t know what was happening behind her back. Loren was playing with her feelings. He was sleeping around with people because he needed a roof over his head.
Faith Wanted To Be Just Friends With Loren
Loren Wasn’t One To Give Up So Easily
Loren maintained that he had been communicating with Faith that he was sleeping with other people and Faith did not understand because of their language barrier. Loren was having sleepovers with people because he was homeless. He wasn’t sleeping with anyone who gave him a place to stay, but he admitted he was sleeping “once a week in every week” even when he always told Faith that he loved her. He convinced Faith that he was not going to sleep with anyone else or even look at anyone else. Meanwhile, Faith was worried about their trip to Leyte.
“And hopefully I can become boyfriend again and then one day, real fiancé.”
Loren had paid for all the expenses to travel to Faith’s hometown before he came to the Philippines. Faith was excited about introducing her family to her boyfriend, but she also didn’t think they’d agree with Faith dating a man who was mistreating her. She told him that she wanted to be friends with Loren. She wanted him to prove himself. Loren started looking for ways to get himself out of the friend zone.
Faith Took Loren To Meet Her Family
Loren Met His Possible Future Wife, Faith’s Mother Pastoralita
Faith took Loren home where he met her mom. Faith’s mom lived with her two twin siblings and her sisters. Faith had never brought a man to see her house before, but her family’s opinion of Loren was very important to her. Faith greeted her sister Abigail and her brother Darwin. Faith’s mother Pastoralita jumped with joy upon seeing Faith. Faith had another brother named Dareen. Darwin and Dareen were twins. Faith also had a trans sister named Bea. Faith told her mom and sisters she was “just friends” with Loren.
Loren Discussed A Wedding In Thailand With Faith
Loren Shockingly Proposed To Faith
Faith’s father died when she was 13 years old from a heart attack. Faith and her family had to live in poverty after her father’s death. Her twin brothers were just two years old at the time. She made up her mind that she wanted to take responsibility for helping her family. Faith moved to Manila as a teenager and funded her own education. Faith’s family was very educated and even had an open mind towards Loren. When Faith told her sisters that Loren had the “illness of the whores” her sisters reminded Faith that Loren was “only human.”
Meanwhile, Loren was able to convince Faith that he loved her and wished to go back to being her boyfriend. Faith agreed and Loren decided to propose to her. He wondered if they could fly to Thailand to get married since the Philippines had same-sex marriage laws. Loren was honest in his approach as he’d previously told her about wanting to move there. They would get the papers and come back to the Philippines so he could apply for citizenship because he was now married to a resident.
Loren Devised A Plan To Marry Faith’s Widowed Mom
Faith Suspected Loren Was Taking Advantage Of Her & Her Family
Loren also had a different plan. He asked Faith what would happen if he just married Faith’s mother instead. He knew Faith didn’t want to marry any other woman. “But what if I don’t just marry any Filipino? What if I just marry your mom?” he asked. Faith’s mom was single, and they could get married on paper. Loren was going to give money to her family and wanted to become a part of her family. Faith told the cameras that Loren’s idea was wild and out of this world, even though marriage laws in the Philippines were complicated.
“It’s makes me feel like he cares more to stay in the Philippines instead of marry me and I’m worried.”
Faith couldn’t believe what Loren had just told her. Faith’s mother thought Loren was joking. She couldn’t believe it. She said she was too old for Loren and didn’t want to get involved in the matter. Faith was concerned that Loren was pushing the idea of marrying her mom on her, and eventually on her family. She didn’t want to think that she and Loren were out of their minds. Loren admitted that while he wanted to be with Faith, his dream was to also live in the Philippines, and it would have been possible with him marrying her mother.
Is Loren Married To Faith’s Mother In The Philippines?
Where Is Loren Living Now In 2024?
As of November 2024, Loren is still living in the U.S. Loren and Faith seemingly filmed 90 Day: Before the 90 Days a year ago in 2023. Loren has been spotted in Las Vegas plenty of times when he is at his workplace, TJ Maxx. Loren also did a Facebook live recently, where blogger Shabooty screen recorded Loren revealing that he was still sleeping on other people’s couches. Loren and Pastoralita’s supposed marriage doesn’t seem to have happened.
It’s more likely that Loren and Faith are the ones who married or got engaged. Faith’s Facebook profile had mentioned that she was engaged but she quickly changed it after 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans came across it. The couple may have decided it was best if Faith moved to the U.S. instead. Loren, although a cheater and a selfish man, may have decided to keep his girlfriend’s needs before him and go to America to marry instead of marrying in Thailand.
90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days airs Sundays at 8 p.m. EST on TLC.
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A deeper look into the lives of couples established in 90 Day Fiancé, 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days is a reality tv/documentary series that follows the potential spouse from a foreign country and their lead-up to their journey to America. The show documents the early days of the relationship across the ocean and the K-1 visa process required for the spouse to live in the new country. Couples battle with culture shock, language barriers, and the opinions of friends and families alike as they prepare themselves to take the ultimate leap.
- Release Date
- August 6, 2017
- Seasons
- 6
- Network
- TLC