90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 4 star “Babygirl” Lisa Hamme divorced Usman “Sojaboy” Umar, but she’s still living off of the fame. In August 2019, she flew to Nigeria to meet Usman. From the beginning, a lot of red flags existed between the pair. Aside from the 22-year age gap, it was clear Lisa had a forceful personality and was very jealous. Usman was a popular rapper, who had a lot of female fans, and Lisa was not comfortable with the situation. However, Usman didn’t appear too concerned at first and wanted to make the relationship work.
Unfortunately, the red flags kept appearing. Lisa revealed shocking details about her sex life with Usman, such as wanting to be unprotected while being intimate, as she believed it was like taking his virginity. She even strongly disapproved of his family. Her behavior became so toxic that many 90 Day Fiancé viewers believed she was emotionally and mentally abusive. Many fans hoped they would break up, but the two said, “I do” anyway. However, the relationship was short-lived, and the couple filed for divorce in December 2020.
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Babygirl Lisa Was Allegedly Fired From The 90 Day Fiancé
In an unaired scene from the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 4 Tell All, Usman alleged that Lisa had used racial slurs against him. She had apparently used the racial slur against Usman as soon as one week before the Tell All.
“
Lisa, last week you called me n****r, which I know is totally inappropriate in America. You called me n****r, I don’t even get angry about it because I am used to how you are behaving
,”
Following the Tell All, Lisa was reportedly fired from the show around June 2020. TLC and the 90 Day Fiancé network never officially confirmed Lisa’s firing, however.
Lisa also did not deny that she used racial slurs against Usman, and when the full Tell All footage was leaked online, Lisa faced significant backlash from the
90 Day Fiancé
community, which likely contributed to her purported firing.
Lisa claims she was never fired from the network, and she has never apologized for anything she has said or her actions.
Lisa Remarried
& Showcases That She’s In Love
In April 2021, 90DF’s Lisa married her now-husband, Tracey Robinson. In an interview with InTouch, Lisa revealed they began dating in September 2020, although they have known each other since grade school. Between the two of them, they have seven children and four grandchildren, but they still find time to squeeze in date nights.
Lisa shared an Instagram post about Tracey in April 2021 commemorating their anniversary. So far, it seems the two are happy in their relationship. Lisa revealed that her husband spoils her, and he would love to appear with her on 90 Day Fiancé: Pillow Talk. Other areas in Lisa’s life are going well, too.
Babygirl Lisa Has A New Job
She’s Trying To Hang On To 90 Day Fiancé Fame
After recovering from toe surgery, from which she was on the reality show My Feet Are Killing Me, she decided to work from home, and 90DF‘s Lisa quit her job as a hospice caregiver. Currently, she makes a living from Cameo. Lisa told the news outlet, “Cameo is my focus. A lot of [90 Day stars] go to OnlyFans, but sorry, I’m just not that girl. I’m not that old lady. So, I will stick with Cameo and let my husband take care of me.” Although her time on the show has ended, she remains grateful for her experience and the people she met along the way.
Lisa Makes Instagram Posts
Outside of showcasing her husband and family on Instagram, Lisa also calls out any “Yahoo Boys,” AKA international scammers usually from Nigeria, she comes across. In early September 2024, Lisa made one such post putting an alleged scammer’s WhatsApp number on blast as she shared the message exchange with her and the reported Yahoo Boy.
“Zero tolerance for scammers,” Lisa captioned.
Lisa has made many of these posts slamming perceived scammers. In the comments of these posts, Lisa gets a mixed variety of responses, from people supporting her cause to people pointing out her experience with them.
Outside of the drama Lisa stirs on Instagram and the family-oriented posts she shares, she also posts heavily filtered selfies, and loves to use her hashtag,
“#babygirllisa.”
Overall, Usman and Lisa didn’t work out, but it appears she realized she knew who her soulmate was all along. Despite being fired from the 90 Day Fiancé franchise, she continues to have a strong following with the fanbase and would like to appear in one of their spin-offs. Even with the criticism Lisa has faced, she still makes her opinions known, such as believing Usman’s relationship with Kim Menzies was fake. In the end, fans and critics want nothing but the best for the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days alum Lisa and her new life with her new husband.
90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days season 7 airs Sundays at 8 p.m. EDT on TLC.
Source: InTouch, Lisa Hamme/Instagram, Lisa Hamme/Instagram